What can I say – this week has been insane.  So much going on with work, volunteer work, etc.  And to be honest, I’m a little stressed about everything going on – but then the email came in from my apartment building saying “You have a package”.  Score – something to pick up my spirits!  And boy did it ever.  I’ve been eyeing the Michael Kors Hamilton bag since it came out over a year ago and finally I have one.  While I took forever to decide between colors – I netted out with black because let’s be honest, every rising professionalista needs at least one good black bag and this one is perfect for me!  It’s a great size (13″ W x 13″ H x 6″ D) and fits everything from an iPad or Tablet to sleek computer (like an Ultrabook or Macbook Air) which is great for me since I’m always traveling with one of the two devices.  Plus there’s still space for my makeup bag, and other must have items.  So excited.

Have a great weekend guys!!

 

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I’ve been thinking a lot about careers lately.  Specifically, how some people are on their A Game and others are sitting on the sidelines.  While I may never know if some people who always seem on top of things are just magically know things or if they study hard like the rest of us – I do know that we can all learn to bring our A game all of the time.  After all – to kick but in the work place much success can be attributed to confidence, the ability to think quickly on your feet, and the hunger to succeed.  At least that’s my opinion.  So since I can’t open the curtains to unveil what some of the best performers are doing to stay on top of their game – I can shed some light into what I think makes people successful.

1. Take Care of yourself!  I’m a firm believer that if you don’t take care of yourself – it will be hard for you to take care of others.  Simple things from carving out some “me time” to getting some exercise and eating your vegetables.  While taking care of yourself becomes more challenging as your role of taking care of others increases – I believe it is a key ingredient to success.  And I’m not the only one who thinks so.  I recently stumbled upon an article on MIT’s website that said the following:

“Your commitment requires an investment of time, as well as, mental and emotional effort. While it may be gratifying and rewarding to help others, it may also take a toll on you. After all, the life of an upper-class student is not without its own stresses challenges. That is why it’s important that you take care of yourself first, if you want to be a successful associate advisor.”

The article continues by discussing setting boundaries, creating a support system, and proper diet and exercise.  Personally I find that when I am doing a good job of taking care of myself (exercise, healthy diet, sleeping, etc.) I have a stronger A Game.

2. Know where you’re trying to go.  Knowing where you’re tying to go is a key element of success.  It’s not only important to creating your game plan – but it’s also key to measuring your success.  This ingredient is similar to Steven Covey’s 2nd Habit for Highly Effective People : Begin with the end in mind.  In his writings, Covey suggests creating a personal mission statement to help guide you as you create a roadmap to success.  In addition to creating a mission statement, I recommend establishing quarterly goals that will help you move one step closer to your end goal.  These goals can be anything from reading a certain amount of trade books, building relationships with two new industry leaders, or joining an organization that will allow you to build the skills you need to be successful.

3. Do your homework.  Once you know where you’re trying to go – it’s important to take action to get there.  This ingredient ties into the earlier recommendation of setting quarterly goals.  Not only should you set the goals – you should work to achieve them.  By breaking your game plan into smaller homework assignments makes your big dream more attainable.  Overwhelming yourself with unrealistic expectations can be counterproductive.

4. Network, Network, Network.  You can never underestimate the value of a good network.  People are often our greatest source of information so I encourage you to meet people who are where you would like to be in life.  While they may not have 100% of your ideal job or life, someone who embodies something you value and wish to achieve in life is a strong ally.  So set up informational interviews, host and/or attend networking parties, go to events where you can meet people whom will help you better your life.  And remember to give back to others as well.

5. Market yourself.  While meeting people is important.  You shouldn’t go into the lions den unprepared.  So remember – take the time to create your elevator pitch.  Be able to speak about yourself in a way that’s not arrogant but portrays yourself in the best light.  While you may not need to chat about yourself much, it’s important to be able to in the event that someone whats to know more about you and your career.  At a networking event, I once met someone where we chatted about me for about 3 mins and spent the rest of the event talking about sports.  Next thing I knew – their firm was contacting me to for a job.  While I didn’t chat about myself for long – I made sure to share the strong highlights about my professional background and then let my personality and passion for sports shine.

So good luck and remember to bring your A game all the time!

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January 11, 2012

G-L-A-M-O-R-O-U-S

I often wonder how they do it…. Celebrities – always looking so glamorous… Well I know how they do it – stylists, personal trainers, make-up artists, etc.  But I wonder what their exact routines are, what products they use….

Basically I wonder what it would be like to have celebrity treatment.

While I may never know – one of the things I can do… We’ll its something we all can do and probably have done more than enough times…

Look at pictures of celebrities and try to figure out why I find them to be so glamorous and then try to mimic it.  And yes – I know… Pictures can be deceiving.  With advanced technology – I’m not sure what is really true in a picture.  But it doesn’t stop me from thinking about the glamour.  Here are some of my favorite glam pics.

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The last few day’s I’ve been flipping through reality TV programs.  I know I’m probably behind the times on some of these shows but today I watched the an episode of “How do I look” for the first time. Checkout a clip from the episode I watched.

This episode exemplified a few key lessons to style.  Here are two take aways from the episode.

1. Potential employers (now I can’t say that all but I bet many) take your appearance into consideration when they’re evaluating you.  It may not  land you a job – but its possible that it will prevent you from getting one.  Now I’m not saying you should throw everything you own away every time you get a new gig – just that your work attire should be industry appropriate.  So if you’re working trying to land a job in the fashion industry – it would be in your best interest to rock a look that is fitting for the industry yet still you.

2.  Don’t be afraid to ask for help or pay for primping.  I know sometimes I wish I had a stylist when I was picking an outfit for the day.  And lets face it – there are many beauty things I can’t do myself – including painting my nails.  So if you’re looking to update your look a little and you’re not sure what to do – don’t hesitate to turn to a professional or ask for assistance from a stylish friend or acquaintance.

 

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There are things that I believe every Rising Professionalista should have in their closet.  Items that will help them look fashionable as they run to work, extracurricular activities, events, etc.  Items that I will refer to as TRP Fashion Staples.  The first of this new posting series is the black pump.  A shoe that can sound so basic but can come is so many different heel heights, backings, textures, fabrics, and overall designs.  Oh how I love black pumps.  So if you have worn out your pair, don’t have a pair in your closet, or just love them as much as I do – checkout some great options below from endless.com.

Nine West Women’s Eyeforeye T-Strap Pump $89 at endless.comJessica Simpson Women’s Elley Peep-Toe Pump $60.99 at endless.com

Pour La Victoire Women’s Irina II Reptile Platform Pump $199 at endless.com

 

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Oh the start of a new year – A chance to accomplish more and shoot for the stars.  While I hate calling my goals “new year resolutions” I can’t help but begin thinking about all that I would like to accomplish in 2012.  Starting with The Rising Professionalista.  So here’s to a new year where I plan to share more posts on fashion, career development, home, health, life, tech and money for the women out there who strive to get better a little bit each day.  Here’s to all you Rising Professionalistas!! I know you can accomplish anything.

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Happy New Year!!

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I don’t know about you but I’m super excited for February when Jason Wu comes to Target!! And hanks to Lucky Magazine there are visuals (above) to get an idea of what’s in store.  Now I don’t know about you, but I have a love for the man whose designs are often worn by First Lady Michelle Obama.  Checkout some of my favorite Jason Wu designs below!

 

 

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Hello 2012!!  I’m not sure about you but I’m confident that 2012 will be better than the one before it.  While there will no doubt be some ups and some downs – 2012 marks the beginning of a new year and a new chance to set and achieve goals. What’s on my list this year?  To continue to push my fashion envelop and add some more styles that embody this month’s Professionalista Style Icon – Emma Stone.  The 23 year old actress is not only stunning but she has starred in some big pictures the last few years.  From Easy A to Crazy Stupid Love to The Help and The Amazing Spider-man which comes out later this year.

Not only is Emma someone who I could see myself being friends with (if I were a celebrity), she is someone who’s closet I wouldn’t mind raiding. Checkout some of my favorite Emma Stone looks below!

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Its not surprise to my friends that I have what could be considered a shopping problem.  While my love for fashion is not prejudice to a particular item like bags, accessories, jeans, or dresses – I guess it could be fair to say that lately I have been on a shoe kick.  So when I saw an illustration in Lucky Magazine of a pair of Milk and Honey Shoes (image above), immediately I had to check out the Milk and Honey website to find these shoes.  And After I found them and continued to search around the site… I found the most amazing news on their blog – I could design and order my own pair of shoes.  Not only is it a dream of mine to play a role in creating a line of shoes and accessories (and who knows what else if it happens and succeeds) – but I love the idea of walking around in a pair of shoes that I’ve “designed”.  So while I may not know what the future holds – I know that this year I plan to create one or more of my own shoes via Milk & Honey.  Time to make things happen! So stay tuned for the results of my designer experience!

Happy New Year!

Nikki

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Happy December!! As you may know, at the begining of each month I highlight a celebrity whom embodies a Rising Professionalista.  Not only are these women smart, stylish, and savvy, but they also take the time to give back to society.  This month’s Professionalista Style Icon is Angelina Jolie.  Here are some highlights of her accomplishments and photos from People.com to show off this momma’s great sense of personal style.

- Jolie earned an an Academy Award (Oscar) in 1999 for Girl Interupted, two Screen Actors Guild Awards (SAG) one for her performance in GIA and the other for her performance in Girl Interrupted, not to mention three Golden Globe Awards.   Shes a UNHCR Goodwill Ambassador, A model for Louis Vuitoon, And a mother of 6.  Additionally, she wrote, directed and produced In the Land of Blood and Honey - now in select theaters.

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